Do you know your Words are Powerful?

Proverbs 18:21: Death and life are in the power of the tongue: and they that love it shall eat the fruit thereof.

Words are not simply sounds caused by air passing through our larynx. Words have real power. The power of our words can actually destroy one’s spirit, even stir up hatred and violence. Words have energy and power with the ability to help, to heal, to hinder, to hurt, to harm, to humiliate and to humble.

Considering the ‘powerful force’ of the words we utter, we must discipline ourselves to speak in a way that conveys respect, gentleness and humility.One of the clearest sign of a moral life is right speech. Perfecting our speech is one of the keystones of mature people. Before speaking take a few moments to contemplate what you will say and how you will say it; while considering the impact they will have on the listener/s. Be kind to all and speak words that are beacons of inspiration, enthusiasm and encouragement to all. Kind and sweet words are always music to the ears of the listeners.

Proverbs 15:1-2
1 A soft answer turns away wrath,But a harsh word stirs up anger.
2 The tongue of the wise uses knowledge rightly,But the mouth of fools pours forth foolishness.

When we speak we should speak with mindfulness, in a way to solidify peace and compassion in our characters. Not only do our words matter, but also the tone which we use has a huge impact. There are certain rules that should guide all our communications with others. Always speak the truth, avoid exaggerations, be consistent in what you are saying, don’t use double standards in addressing people, don’t use your words to manipulate others, and most importantly do not use words to insult or belittle anyone.

The ability to express our thoughts and feelings in words is truly a marvel. Our words have the ability to manipulate our own well-being and others'. Words can bring death, or they can bring life, hope and purpose. Today, make your mouth “a fountain of life” (Proverbs 10:11). Be “slow to speak” in general (James 1:19). Encourage more than you critique. Seek opportunities to speak kind, tenderhearted words (Ephesians 4:32). Say something affectionate to a loved one at an unexpected time. Seek to only speak words that are “good for building up,” that “give grace to those who hear” (Ephesians 4:29).

Be a person whose mouth is full of life.

We have the choice.